Norse Wiccan Handfasting Rite
The BRIDE should be dressed in white, wearing a long, wide headdress or veil, fastened to the top of her head or hanging down her back. At her breast she wears a jewel or rune ornament in remembrance of Lady Freya's powerful and magical Brisingamen gem. The keys to the new home, or an ornate set of keys on a colored sash are on the altar to be presented to the BRIDE as symbol of her attaining to the household.
A GROOMSMAN carries a sword for the GROOM, and either wears or carries it.
When all is in readiness the GODI asks all to be silent for a moment, and then says:
We are gathered here at this time
to mark and to witness the joining in marriage
of two who would be husband and wife.
At this time and at this place we call also
Upon the All father Odin, Fraya of love and desire,
And Good friend Thor
To witness the words that here shall be spoken.
In the ancient manner do we also invoke
The Goddess Var, who,
as told in our ancient legends,
hears the vows
of men and of women.
After a pause of five heartbeats, the GODIA says:
Carry in the Hammer
to consecrate the bride, and the groom.
Lay this symbol of our Gods
In the lap of each,
to so wed these two together
With the hand of Var.
A Hammer of Thor is brought forth, and the GODI says to the groom:
Kneel now, to receive the ancient blessing.
To the GROOM as the Hammer is touched to him:
Before the High Gods, and before our people,
Art thou blessed anew once again.
The Hammer of Thor is handed to the GODIA, who says to the BRIDE:
Kneel now to receive the ancient blessing.
To the BRIDE as the Hammer is touched to her:
Before the High Gods, and before our people,
Art thou blessed anew once again.
When both are blessed the GODI bids them to rise. The GODI then says to the GROOM:
_____________, if you truly desire
to marry this woman,
I ask thee to give, wholeheartedly,
the blade that symbolizes thy strength.
Swear thy weapon to her,
Always to be at her service.
The GROOM takes the sword and offers it to the BRIDE, saying:
My most beloved,
Accept the oath of love which I offer thee.
I vow this sword, as I vow my soul,
ever to be at thy service.
Like this blade my heart will strong,
Like this steel my love will endure.
Accept it, my chosen one,
for all that is mine
will now be thine.
The BRIDE takes the sword silently in her hands and touches it to her forehead for the time of three heartbeats. She returns it to him, saying:
My most beloved,
I accept this oath, sworn on thy blade.
Thou knowest what is in my heart, as I know what is in thine.
The GODIA then says to the BRIDE:
______________, if you truly desire
To marry this man,
I ask thee to give, wholeheartedly,
The jewel of beauty which thou wears,
In symbol of our Lady's great magic and power.
Swear thy jewel to him,
Always to be at his service
The BRIDE then takes her jewel and hold it out to the GROOM saying:
My most beloved,
Accept the oath of love which I offer thee.
I vow this jewel, as I vow my soul,
ever to be at thy service.
Like its beauty my heart will strong,
Like this value my love will endure.
Accept it, my chosen one,
for all that is mine
will now be thine.
The GROOM takes the jewel silently in his hands and touches it to his forehead for the time of three heartbeats. He then returns it to her saying:
My most beloved,
I accept this oath, sworn on thy jewel.
Thou know what is in my heart, as I know what is in thine.
The GODI says:
Thou who shalt be husband and wife,
Listen to what we say, here and now.
Whatever each of thee
May accomplish in future years,
Wherever thou may wander,
Know full well that thou shalt do all
For our people, for thy family and thy kin,
And to be worthy each of the other.
The GODIA hold forth the keys to the BRIDE, saying:
If thou would be mistress of the household
and all therein, honored for thy wisdom
in the councils of our people,
and equal partner to thy husband,
I bid thee take these keys,
Symbol of thy new life.
The keys are handed to the BRIDE, and a BRIDESMAID sees that they are fastened at her waist as the GODIA says:
At this time, and henceforth,
As the keys are given to thee,
Dost thou take over a new household.
Be wise in all thou doest.
Then the GODI says to the GROOM:
With this rite thou gains a treasure of greatest value,
Care for her, and protect her always
for there is none who is her equal.
Then the GODIA says to BOTH:
Above thee are the stars,
below thee are the stones.
Remember always,
Like a star should thy love be constant
Like the Earth should thy love be firm.
Possess one another, yet be understanding.
Have patience, for storms may come and go.
Be free always in giving of affection and of warmth,
for our Gods and our people will always be with thee
After a pause of five heartbeats, the GODI asks:
Dost thou desire, (BRIDE)
To have this man as thy husband,
forsaking all others? (The BRIDE gives the answer.)
Dost thou desire, (GROOM'S NAME)
To have this woman as thy wife,
forsaking all others? (The answer is given by the GROOM.)
The GODIA says:
All have heard and witnessed that which has been said. Are there any who say nay?
After a pause of five heartbeats, the GODI says:
Then, in symbol of thy joining, one to the other,
Place each the ring upon the other's finger,
and seal the troth with a kiss.
The couple will do so, and the GODI or GODIA continues:
Before those gathered here,
And before the High Gods,
Thou are man and wife,
And henceforth be as one.
Pause at this time if the BRIDE and GROOM wish to receive the congratulations and felicitations of those in attendance. After a suitable time the GODIA continues.
The GODIA pours a horn of ale for the two to share, and gives each to drink, saying:
In the name of our people, and our Gods,
May thou knowest the best of fortune,
And thy life henceforth be one
Of joy and prosperity for thee,
And pride and strength for our people.
Then the horn is given to each of the bridesmaids and groomsmen, saying:
I ask thee to wish well to those now wedded,
And to drink in their honor.
When the last guest has so pledge, the GODI says:
This rite is ended.
May our Gods be with us always. 
